Getting a gal for marriage.....

When i was writing a blog there was a big smile in my face. i dont know y....... It happens.

When my parents were asking for marriage i was not at all interested. I said some time. BUt later when i agreed the gal searching process began.

When the search began, i was very very happy. It is a feeling that cannot be expressed but feels gud, that we are gng to get engaged soon with someone for the whole life. (Just like a Navtal Lock 16 lever)

Searching a gal is not easy process. Lot of things needed to be considered. As we all know that i will skip that part.

But searching is a interesting job. Sometimes u feel that gal is very gud and suddenly and chld comes near by and says to her "Mummy i want dat". Diffcult to identify if she is gal or mummy.

Sometimes in other situations u feel the gal is really gud and u can guess she is not a mother. When u just start to move she goes on with some other guy in his bike.. Situations become so complex dat we feel jealous for dat guy with dat bike "Aise usme kya hai jo mere mein nahi hai"(Wat is there in him dat i dont have) is wat i feel.

It is all luck factor and behaviour that matters i feel so. I may be wrong also.

Hope so life turns to be sweet soon......

Patience and Ego

The Patience is nothing but "Good-natured tolerance of delay or incompetence" and ego means "An inflated feeling of pride in your superiority to others". Patience is very important for the human to live in this world especially in a democratic country like india and Ego should not be there. Both are contradictory.

Many people lack the patience and have ego. When some thing bad happens they burst into anger (and sometimes tears) and situations become so complex that they thnk there is no tomorow. Situations become so complex that easy thngs also become complex and big to and handle and people finally thnk it cannot be settled down.

For eg. It is a very funny situation dat i have seen with my eyes... Although the situaion became too complex. It should have been handled very smoothly...

When i came to bangalore i lived in aparment just behind my office. In the evening lot of kids used to enjoy the evening time. One day 2 kids had a quarrel, that led into quarrel of their mothers, and later into quarrel of their fathers and finally police was called in. How does it feel after reading this??? Foolish and u must be laughing like anything.....

Even i did the same after gng to room. Wat is the result of ego and impatient they got?? Disturbances in their normal life and a foolish name in the apartment. It was not at all needed.

Things can be solved so easily and without much effort are made more complex now a days.

Some days before there was a quarrel in the road and i came to knew it was bcoz their vehicles collided with each other. If each one of them had admitted his mistake the problem would have been solved easily. Isn't it????

What we get after quarrel. Headache and normal life gets disturbed... Is it really necessary???

Understanding the situation and taking steps accordingly will take care of all the things i hope so......