When i was writing a blog there was a big smile in my face. i dont know y....... It happens.
When my parents were asking for marriage i was not at all interested. I said some time. BUt later when i agreed the gal searching process began.
When the search began, i was very very happy. It is a feeling that cannot be expressed but feels gud, that we are gng to get engaged soon with someone for the whole life. (Just like a Navtal Lock 16 lever)
Searching a gal is not easy process. Lot of things needed to be considered. As we all know that i will skip that part.
But searching is a interesting job. Sometimes u feel that gal is very gud and suddenly and chld comes near by and says to her "Mummy i want dat". Diffcult to identify if she is gal or mummy.
Sometimes in other situations u feel the gal is really gud and u can guess she is not a mother. When u just start to move she goes on with some other guy in his bike.. Situations become so complex dat we feel jealous for dat guy with dat bike "Aise usme kya hai jo mere mein nahi hai"(Wat is there in him dat i dont have) is wat i feel.
It is all luck factor and behaviour that matters i feel so. I may be wrong also.
Hope so life turns to be sweet soon......
Friday, July 10, 2009
Patience and Ego
The Patience is nothing but "Good-natured tolerance of delay or incompetence" and ego means "An inflated feeling of pride in your superiority to others". Patience is very important for the human to live in this world especially in a democratic country like india and Ego should not be there. Both are contradictory.
Many people lack the patience and have ego. When some thing bad happens they burst into anger (and sometimes tears) and situations become so complex that they thnk there is no tomorow. Situations become so complex that easy thngs also become complex and big to and handle and people finally thnk it cannot be settled down.
For eg. It is a very funny situation dat i have seen with my eyes... Although the situaion became too complex. It should have been handled very smoothly...
When i came to bangalore i lived in aparment just behind my office. In the evening lot of kids used to enjoy the evening time. One day 2 kids had a quarrel, that led into quarrel of their mothers, and later into quarrel of their fathers and finally police was called in. How does it feel after reading this??? Foolish and u must be laughing like anything.....
Even i did the same after gng to room. Wat is the result of ego and impatient they got?? Disturbances in their normal life and a foolish name in the apartment. It was not at all needed.
Things can be solved so easily and without much effort are made more complex now a days.
Some days before there was a quarrel in the road and i came to knew it was bcoz their vehicles collided with each other. If each one of them had admitted his mistake the problem would have been solved easily. Isn't it????
What we get after quarrel. Headache and normal life gets disturbed... Is it really necessary???
Understanding the situation and taking steps accordingly will take care of all the things i hope so......
Many people lack the patience and have ego. When some thing bad happens they burst into anger (and sometimes tears) and situations become so complex that they thnk there is no tomorow. Situations become so complex that easy thngs also become complex and big to and handle and people finally thnk it cannot be settled down.
For eg. It is a very funny situation dat i have seen with my eyes... Although the situaion became too complex. It should have been handled very smoothly...
When i came to bangalore i lived in aparment just behind my office. In the evening lot of kids used to enjoy the evening time. One day 2 kids had a quarrel, that led into quarrel of their mothers, and later into quarrel of their fathers and finally police was called in. How does it feel after reading this??? Foolish and u must be laughing like anything.....
Even i did the same after gng to room. Wat is the result of ego and impatient they got?? Disturbances in their normal life and a foolish name in the apartment. It was not at all needed.
Things can be solved so easily and without much effort are made more complex now a days.
Some days before there was a quarrel in the road and i came to knew it was bcoz their vehicles collided with each other. If each one of them had admitted his mistake the problem would have been solved easily. Isn't it????
What we get after quarrel. Headache and normal life gets disturbed... Is it really necessary???
Understanding the situation and taking steps accordingly will take care of all the things i hope so......
Monday, April 6, 2009
Luck Matters...........
LUCK is a word dat everyone one knows and everyone is fond of. He / She will love 2 have it at any cost and enjoy the fruits of luck.
Today luck has also become part of everone's career. Where ever he goes one thing he needs with him is luck, without which things become worst for him than expected.
But has anyone of us ever thought about wat is luck???
Is it fate / destiny?? or is it path dat some divine power has created for him??
For me it may be both depending on the situations.
These situations can be like this : if some one gets something which he doesnot likes but he has 2 chooose dat, then dat can be called a fate & if some one gets unexpected results but he is happy with wat he has got is the divine powers creation.
No one knows how 2 get the luck but there is saying "Wat u get is wat u sow".
Many people say that keep on doint your work, dont expect anything and u will get one day wat u want.
People may not get reach their milestone at the very first time. But they may reach after some attempts. The attempts which he has made gives him some experience 2 tackle situations much better than others who are gng 2 reach the milestone for the firsttime based on their luck.
Every time if everyone expects luck to be favourable with him then, no one will work hard and no one will loose.
Luck is just a part of life not whole part of life... Sometimes hard work creats luck and some times unexpected things
happen dat we call as luck.......
Today luck has also become part of everone's career. Where ever he goes one thing he needs with him is luck, without which things become worst for him than expected.
But has anyone of us ever thought about wat is luck???
Is it fate / destiny?? or is it path dat some divine power has created for him??
For me it may be both depending on the situations.
These situations can be like this : if some one gets something which he doesnot likes but he has 2 chooose dat, then dat can be called a fate & if some one gets unexpected results but he is happy with wat he has got is the divine powers creation.
No one knows how 2 get the luck but there is saying "Wat u get is wat u sow".
Many people say that keep on doint your work, dont expect anything and u will get one day wat u want.
People may not get reach their milestone at the very first time. But they may reach after some attempts. The attempts which he has made gives him some experience 2 tackle situations much better than others who are gng 2 reach the milestone for the firsttime based on their luck.
Every time if everyone expects luck to be favourable with him then, no one will work hard and no one will loose.
Luck is just a part of life not whole part of life... Sometimes hard work creats luck and some times unexpected things
happen dat we call as luck.......
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
Beatiful Moments.
Beautiful moment. When some one asks this question to, we generally think, re-collect moments from our memory and when we start saying with a beautiful or naughty smile on our face......
But before that what does beautiful moment mean?
There are many situations when a man has a beautiful moment... They can be like a
1) when a boy proposes the gal and gals reply is positive dat is a beautiful moment for the boy and for the gal too and vice versa also.
2) when a lady gives birth to a baby that is beautiful moment for her. She becomes mother and feels so happy even though she had faced lot of troubles for last 9 months and same is the case of the father.
3) when the results are announced after exams, the smile dat is seen on the students face is simply amazing provided the result is positive.
4) when the child speaks for the first time, dat is the beautiful moment for parents,
5) speaking to a friend after a long time and recollecting those naughty school and college days is also a beautiful moment
6) getting selected in a company after struggling lot in life is also one of the most beautiful moments especially for the boys
7) getting the first salary and giving beautiful gifts to parents is another beautiful moment that everyone will not forget
8) after getting married when the boy kisses the gal and vice versa..................... it is most beautifffffffffffffffffffffffffffullllllllllll moment the boy or gal ever have experienced.
9) finally after living together, the support dat wife gives to her husband and vice versa... dat is simply beautiful and cannot be forgetten till death.....
............................. list can go on.
I got an idea for writing this blog when i was talking to her after a long time.
She was one my college mates and she was center of the attraction in the college.
I was very frank with her dat even i had a crush with her when i saw her for the first time.
She was laughing so much as if she will not laugh again.... and then we discussed just on the other college matters that were gud and bad as well..................
But before that what does beautiful moment mean?
There are many situations when a man has a beautiful moment... They can be like a
1) when a boy proposes the gal and gals reply is positive dat is a beautiful moment for the boy and for the gal too and vice versa also.
2) when a lady gives birth to a baby that is beautiful moment for her. She becomes mother and feels so happy even though she had faced lot of troubles for last 9 months and same is the case of the father.
3) when the results are announced after exams, the smile dat is seen on the students face is simply amazing provided the result is positive.
4) when the child speaks for the first time, dat is the beautiful moment for parents,
5) speaking to a friend after a long time and recollecting those naughty school and college days is also a beautiful moment
6) getting selected in a company after struggling lot in life is also one of the most beautiful moments especially for the boys
7) getting the first salary and giving beautiful gifts to parents is another beautiful moment that everyone will not forget
8) after getting married when the boy kisses the gal and vice versa..................... it is most beautifffffffffffffffffffffffffffullllllllllll moment the boy or gal ever have experienced.
9) finally after living together, the support dat wife gives to her husband and vice versa... dat is simply beautiful and cannot be forgetten till death.....
............................. list can go on.
I got an idea for writing this blog when i was talking to her after a long time.
She was one my college mates and she was center of the attraction in the college.
I was very frank with her dat even i had a crush with her when i saw her for the first time.
She was laughing so much as if she will not laugh again.... and then we discussed just on the other college matters that were gud and bad as well..................
Saturday, January 17, 2009
Secrets of Success
Success... it is only thing behind which one runs. For achieving success he has to work hard a lot without which his dreams cannot be made realistic.
Success cannot be achieved in a single day. Day by day the hard work he does, adds up and finally one day he gets want he wants. The sea which looks big for everyone of us, is nothing but tiny drops of water which when combined together gives us a gigantic structure. Similar is the case of success.
For achieving success there are certain rules without which we cannot reach our milestones. They are :
a) Interest,
b) Dedication,
c) Patience
d) Self Motivation and self learning,
e) Proper scheduling,
f) Practice.
These five points are very important to achieve success. Based on these rules one has to start his voyage.
a) Interest - Interest... It is word through which the whole world is moving forward. Without interest one cannot do anything even if he is forced to do. Interest is nothing but admiring things and taking steps accordingly for achieving it. For eg : to become a doctor one has to create a interest on his own. Without interest if one is forced, then results may be worse.
b) Dedication - One has to dedicate his life to achieve his success. He has to totally concentrate on his work and understand the subject well. He has to sacrifice other things of interest in his life to achieve the success. For eg : if someone feels he wants to become a doctor and if he has the interest, he has sacrifice all other things and concentrate well on his studies.
c) Patience - Patience is also one of the important aspects to achieve success. He has to be patient until he gets good knowledge on that subject and executes it. Instead if he keeps on executing frequently without gaining knowledge then he cannot achieve what he wants. This results in wastage of time, and slowly he gets distracted from the path of success.
d) Self motivation and self learning - Self motivation is nothing but encouraging and boosting himself to move on a right track to achieve the milestone. He should not expect encouragement from the world. He should think "what ever i am doing is correct and i am on the right track."
Self learning is another important aspects to achieve success. He should learn on his own. He should explore the world in order to gain more knowledge. Exploring things on that subject, allows a man to be more wise and think in many different ways to solve a problem.
e)Proper Scheduling - Time management is very important for doing a task within the deadline. Without time management, even if he has good knowledge he cant achieve the goal. There should be proper scheduling of doing the work. One should prepare a timetable of things to be done, for achieving his milestone. Without timetable the work gets jumbled up and in some cases certain works is given more concentration and certain work is given less. Net Result - Loss.
f) Practice - This the most important of all the steps covered so far. Without practice one cannot retain his knowledge. What ever knowledge one has gained it will last for a long time only if he practices.
These are some of the most important steps that will help one to achieve his milestone / success.
Success cannot be achieved in a single day. Day by day the hard work he does, adds up and finally one day he gets want he wants. The sea which looks big for everyone of us, is nothing but tiny drops of water which when combined together gives us a gigantic structure. Similar is the case of success.
For achieving success there are certain rules without which we cannot reach our milestones. They are :
a) Interest,
b) Dedication,
c) Patience
d) Self Motivation and self learning,
e) Proper scheduling,
f) Practice.
These five points are very important to achieve success. Based on these rules one has to start his voyage.
a) Interest - Interest... It is word through which the whole world is moving forward. Without interest one cannot do anything even if he is forced to do. Interest is nothing but admiring things and taking steps accordingly for achieving it. For eg : to become a doctor one has to create a interest on his own. Without interest if one is forced, then results may be worse.
b) Dedication - One has to dedicate his life to achieve his success. He has to totally concentrate on his work and understand the subject well. He has to sacrifice other things of interest in his life to achieve the success. For eg : if someone feels he wants to become a doctor and if he has the interest, he has sacrifice all other things and concentrate well on his studies.
c) Patience - Patience is also one of the important aspects to achieve success. He has to be patient until he gets good knowledge on that subject and executes it. Instead if he keeps on executing frequently without gaining knowledge then he cannot achieve what he wants. This results in wastage of time, and slowly he gets distracted from the path of success.
d) Self motivation and self learning - Self motivation is nothing but encouraging and boosting himself to move on a right track to achieve the milestone. He should not expect encouragement from the world. He should think "what ever i am doing is correct and i am on the right track."
Self learning is another important aspects to achieve success. He should learn on his own. He should explore the world in order to gain more knowledge. Exploring things on that subject, allows a man to be more wise and think in many different ways to solve a problem.
e)Proper Scheduling - Time management is very important for doing a task within the deadline. Without time management, even if he has good knowledge he cant achieve the goal. There should be proper scheduling of doing the work. One should prepare a timetable of things to be done, for achieving his milestone. Without timetable the work gets jumbled up and in some cases certain works is given more concentration and certain work is given less. Net Result - Loss.
f) Practice - This the most important of all the steps covered so far. Without practice one cannot retain his knowledge. What ever knowledge one has gained it will last for a long time only if he practices.
These are some of the most important steps that will help one to achieve his milestone / success.
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