what is mind?

What is MIND?

In normal terms Mind is a place where we make decisions, judgements, decide approaches, etc.

Mind is just like a monkey. It keeps on jumping here and there. It does not stay at a single place. Controlling Mind is not very easy and those who know how to control mind, can have a peaceful life.

Decisions made by us, is nothing but the jump that the monkey takes from one tree to another.
Some decisions are very small and we can jump easily. But some decisions are very big and our jump is quiet risky.

When jumps are big, we risk our life, try to catch our best deeds/work and fall from top to bottom and start our life again because of insufficient planning. OR. When we jump we keep on trying to hold the branches of our work we did in the past and sometimes our past work helps us not to fall to deep to 0 level but at some point from where we can come up easily.

Today all good things and bad things are happening because of mind. If Mind is in control, our problems will be in control and we could lead a peaceful life.

Some people keep on jumping from one position to another at a very faster rate. It is obvious that the faster rate you grow high, you will have to cook something behind. Max cases, the person who rises faster, will fall faster(Very rarely people stand still who rise faster).

Growth in life should be slow. Slower the rate, more you will get wise and you will have more confidence to make decisions (how to jump)  and solve problems.

Control on mind is must. If there is control on mind, there will control on necessary things and if there is control on such things, life will be simple and beautiful.

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Getting a second chance.

Getting a second chance 

This blog is somewhat related to everyone's life. Every one gets a chance in life to give a new start in his career. But some people do neglect the call and starve a lot in life. When they look back in life, it feels like they should have taken that call, it would have been better.

Like this many people would have felt, including me. Chances do come in life but not always. People mostly miss it, bcoz of surrounding pressure, family responsibility, friends and lot more reasons. Some reasons are valid but some reasons are not always valid.

Many people complain that life did not give them a chance. I feel like that is wrong. Each and every person gets a chance. But they fail to identify it and sit behind bcoz they are scared to go forward. They do not have enough courage to face the situations ahead. But doing this it will not change their lifestyle and they will start complaining again.

Life does give every1 more than one chance in their life to succeed. How people take it depends on them. I will totally accept. I got a second chance and because of that today i am here in a good position compared to what i was 3 years before. The chance was none other than my MCA. I knew i had made a mistake in my life by not opting the chance. I had to face a bad time for some years. But i got a good chance after 5 yrs in terms of MCA. And good thing i opted for it.

One main reason here is, the motivation from my parents which made me study MCA. Without them i am totally nothing.

For different people the chances they get is different. Some get in terms of business, clients, contracts, education, love, and list can go on...

But one this is common to all in this. "COURAGE". Courage is the power factor to drive the whole story. I feel like even if you do not have knowledge its OK. Knowledge is important but more than that courage is also important. Having enough knowledge and no courage is useless. Courage teaches you all. I feel like courage brings knowledge, attitude and responsibility.

Some take the decision when it is of the kind do or die. And believe me the decision they take 78-80% clicks. I have seen in many cases.

Some take the decision to start a new venture. Here the people are economically good and they try to make R&D. If the venture clicks they make good profits else they will not face any big loss. Maybe they can learn from their mistakes and try again some time later.

It totally depends on how you handle the situation. If you are pretty much confident on urself, taking a chance may be first or second or third does not matter. But opting for that is important.

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Funny/Sad moments in life

1.  Sitting in the exam hall, you dont know any answer for the question, suddenly a chit lands on your desk thrown by some guy in front, you open the chit and find all the answers, hard luck the invigilator comes and takes away the chit and gives you a warning.

2. You are riding very fast on your 2 wheeler, suddenly a dog comes in the middle, you apply the brakes and skid and land in a very badly with bike in some place and you somewhere, but the dog is unhurt...

3. A beautiful gal says hi and smiles at you every day, your happiness has no bounds, one day she comes and says "bhaiya......"....

4. You are standing on Q for buying tickets in the theater, when your turns comes you see the board housefull....

5. Waiting for the exam results, you are good in studies and expect to be topper, for your luck you are the second and a guy whom you have always seen playing and not studying anything, becomes the topper...

I want to.....

I want to go back to school and sit in the last bench.
Today i work in a office and i cannot see any last cubicle empty. :(

I want to see the beautiful trees again near my school and locality.
Today i can see only houses and buildings. :(



I want to sit in the class with my friends and share jokes when the class is on.
Today i share sms jokes or chat when the meeting is on.


I want to drive the bicycle again with my friends and want to race with them, hope so this time i will win.
Today i drive only 2wheeler that pollutes the air. :(

I want to bunk the classes again in my college and go to canteen for having a cigarette (Sutta).
Today i can rarely take leaves in office otherwise i have to suffer lose of pay. :(
 
I want to go to steal the mangoes again from the farm and eat them. (Eatable things which are stolen are more tasty)
Today i rarely do see mango trees. I can only see roads, and layouts. :(

I want to stay late night with my friend for night study but what we do is we know :). (TV, Games, etc)
Today i do stay late nights but for official work and client calls. :(

Finally i want to see a person with pure honesty.
Today i could not find such person.

Life is a learning.

Life is a learning

Life is a learning. Its very true. At each and every step we learn new things.


As a kid we learn how to walk, how to speak, and how to behave and lots more.

In the age of 10 we learn what is study, what is friendship and we learn what is the importance of friendship.

As a teenager we learn how to impress people, how to make gals friends and how to flirt and more on...


In the earlier 20s we learn how to smoke, how to drink, how to have a cocktail...... 


In the early 30s we learn how to move away from drinks and smoke and finally we learn what is family and what is its importance.


In the early 35s we learn how difficult is managing children, which your father had done.


In the early 40s we learn more on management roles in professional life and learn that are kids are becoming more brighter than us....


In the late 50s we learn that our body is not supporting us more so we should retire and take rest for the rest of life.


In the rest of life we do a flashback with all our friends and finally come to a conclusion that we did learn very little.  We need to learn more.


Life is learning, Keep on learning and enjoy.

Nostalgic days

This blog is dedicated to the people who were part of my earlier team in my previous company.


Rahul :
Rahul basically a tester is a person who mixes with every1 easily. No ego, but has lot of patience. I still remember how much i bugged him for clearing my doubts while working on my projects. Well rahuls one more name is also there chatter box. He keeps on talking and talking and talking. If you need to kill a snake, ask Rahul to speak, he will keep on talking and talking and talking, the snake will automatically die. He has one more name as well, "Dabangg". Bcoz he walks like Chulbul Pandey. He has lot of good talents, he dances, sings and above all he is a good drummer too.

Kshiroda :
Kshiroda. When first i met him i was confused how to pronounce his name, shiroda or khiroda or .... Then Rahul told me its shiroda. Rahul even told, Kshiroda did not know how to pronounce his name also. Rahul and other guys only taught him. Kshirodas main attraction is his pronunciation. For Bulb he will pronounce ball, for Jealous he will pronounce something like Jilebi and many more the list is endless... just like his speech.
Well i dont know much of his talent... but by person he is a very good and a good friend also.

Abdul (Anna) :
A cool and friendly guy from Madurai, known for his good nature and good behavior. He is friendly to all in the team and mostly all team refers him "Anna" the term coined by Hema "The great Painter" (will talk about her later). Anna has one more name "Nimbooz Anna". We went to coorg trip and Anna was the guy who got affected a lot bcoz of travel and had to take lots of Nimbooz(the real Nimboo drink). Although Anna looks very innocent, there lot of mischief's that only me and Rahul knows. Cant be discussed here bcoz it will become very vulgar....

Abhiram :
My Guru in development. He is one of the highly skilled developers. He has lot of good talents and he always remains silent. When ever i saw him he always keeps on reading, thus improving his knowledge and skills. That is Abhiram. No words to express much on him but he is also a good person and good friend too. I dont remember if Abhiram had a nick name but US ppl always used to call him "Abraham".

Gururajan J :
My first Guru in SE role. Has got lot of patience, talent and by person he is very good. Always helped me in my bad times. He is famous is his GKC(Guru Krack club). He makes lot of good jokes which make us think and laugh also. He advices a lot and can help you out and explain things many times even if you did not understand. By nature he is also very very good and very good friend of mine and every1.

Hema :
A very talented and bold gal and a good employee :). She likes singing a lot and she is a good singer too... She will never forget me as i deleted all the files from the build which she had made for her presentation. Bcoz of that she had to extent long hours in office and that too many days. All the credit goes to me. Thnks Hema. Nothing more about her...

Days with them were very good. I learned a lot of things from all of them and i do miss their jokes, their pronunciation, their innocence, and GKC.

Nothing is permanent in life. It has keep on moving. That is what i have learned.

Guys keep on rocking meet you soon somewhere in this world again as world is very small.

I got the answer

I got the answer

There are many questions in this life for which we do not get the answer. But sometimes unknowingly we get the answer and it becomes a turning point in our life.

1. When we see a rich guy passing by we feel "i wish i would have been like him". But when we see a poor guy, we feel we got the answer to my question ie we feel we are in a good situation than him.

2. It is always said that comparison kills the human happiness. Its true. But comparing with people who are at a level lower than us, it gives us a reason of life within us.

3. Comparison with lower grade people is good at times when we have hard times. But that comparison will never help us to lead a good life.

4. If we want to achieve success in our career, we have to observe the people a grade above us to boost our attitude.

5. The best thing that can be said is, should not always compare with others which does not lead to a peaceful life. 

6. Comparison can be done at needed times, which might improve our lifestyle.